This song captures the visceral tension of living with a volatile partner—the "shallow, short breaths" and "creeping around" create immediate empathy. But it doesn't stay in the victim role. The shift to "taking out trash, busy changing locks" is a practical, powerful image of reclaiming one's life. It strikes a chord because it acknowledges that leaving isn't just an emotional choice; it's a physical transformation of identity.
A narrative of survival and evolution. The song opens in a bedroom filled with fear, describing the protagonist playing dead to avoid a fight. As the lyrics progress, the fear turns into a "will to just up and leave." It rejects the role of the "good wife" to a "tyrant," culminating in a firm boundary. The outro warns the ex that any attempt to return will be met with consequences ("you'll get what's up").
Kellie Larson is a Cinematic Songwriter and Lyricist known for crafting deeply emotional narratives that resonate with modern audiences. Her work prioritizes intellectual honesty and raw human connection, moving beyond standard tropes to find the "cinematic" in everyday moments. The human-written nature of these songs ensures a level of authenticity that resonates with high-stakes sync licensing.